Speedreading ENFJs

The key to success lies in your ability to quickly size others up, and speak their language. Here are just a few clues for SpeedReading (understanding) and SpeedReaching (communicating with) ENFJs.

How to Spot ENFJs:

• friendly, enthusiastic, and empathetic

• creative, original, and articulate communicators

• very expressive with strong, sincere, value-based opinions

• decisive, organized leaders

Tips for Communicating with ENFJs:

• Express appreciation for their contributions

• Avoid confrontations – be diplomatic and look for points of harmony

• Respect their feelings and their need to be true to their values

How to Love an ENFJ

• Encourage me to express my feelings and opinions.

• Share your own reactions and emotions with me.

• Tell me how much you love me and appreciate all the ways I enrich your life.

• Make the effort to really get to know and understand my philosophical nature.

• Try to keep our home orderly.

• Above all – support my feelings and work to restore harmony between us quickly.

Great careers for ENFJs

Here are just a few popular and often satisfying careers for people whose Personality Type is ENFJ.

• Advertising account executive
• Magazine editor
• Therapist
• Career or outplacement counselor
• Corporate trainer
• Bilingual education teacher
• College professor: humanities
• Fund raiser
• TV producer
• Occupational therapist
• Holistic health practitioner
• Marketing executive
• Writer / journalist
• Social worker
• Human Resources professional

Vanda showed me and I took it

Passo-me com gente que falta a compromissos. Que chega sempre atrasada. Que nao responde a mensagens, emails ou telefonemas. Que promete mas nao cumpre.

O mais giro e que essas pessoas esperam isso dos outros. Nao respeitam e esperam ser respeitadas. Essas pessoas passam demasiado tempo a pensar no proprio umbigo para verem que existem mais pessoas, que vivemos numa sociedade e que nao sao Reis nem Rainhas rodeados de escravos sempre ao dispor. Considero uma falta de respeito, uma evidencia de egocentrismo, de egoismo e mesmo de incompetencia por nao saberem organizar o seu tempo e as suas prioridades.

Azares acontecem, mas fazer desta atitude um habito nao tem desculpa.

E nao me venham dizer que sao espiritos livres que nao se sujeitam a horarios. Vivemos numa sociedade e como tal existem regras minimas de convivencia. Sao livres de nao as cumprir, mas nao se surpreendam quando receberem as consequencias. Alguem que escolhe ser uma ma pessoa nao se devia surpreender se acabar sem amigos. Toda a accao tem uma reaccao.

I’m waiting for you

I’m waiting I’m waiting for yoooouuuu

I’m, waiting, I’m waiting… for youu

Due to my usual clumsiness, I spilled sugar all over myself this morning.

maybe to try to remedy the bitterness We don’t have enough sugar in the house…

estar dependente de outrem. Especialmente quando o outrem pertence ao grupo de pessoas que abomino (nao confiaveis). Mas isso fica para outro post.

Talvez tenha deixado de ser parva. De respeitar quem nao me respeita, de desculpar o que nao tem desculpa, de esperar o que nao existe e de me desiludir.

Chamem-me ma, digam que mudei, que a culpa e disto ou daquilo. Para mim e tudo muito simples: contem com aquilo que me dao. Cansei-me.

A expressao olho por olho, dente por dente tambem se aplica as coisas boas.

Translation

Different? Maybe…

Maybe I just stopped being stupid. Stopped respecting who doesn’t respect me, excusing what has no excuse, and expecting what will not come and be disappointed.

Call me mean, say I’ve changed and try to find reasons for it. For me it’s all very simple: Count on what you give me. I had enough.

The expression and eye for an eye can be applied to good things as well.

Atchoo!!!!